Francois Duc de La Rochefoucauld (1613 - 1680)
A true friend is the greatest of all blessing, and the one that we take the least care of all to acquire. |
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Absence
extinguishes small passions and increases great ones, as the wind will
blow out a candle, and blow in afire. |
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Confidence
contributes more to conversation that wit. |
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Everyone
complains of his memory, and no one complains of his judgement. |
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Few
people know how to be old. |
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How
can we expect another to keep our secrets if we have been unable to keep
it ourselves? |
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Hypocrisy
is the homage that vice pays to virtue. |
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If
we had no faults of our own, we would not take so much pleasure in
noticing those of others. |
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If
we judge of love by its usual effects, it resembles hatred more than
friendship. |
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If
we resist our passions, it is more from their weakness than from out
strength. |
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It
is a great ability to be able to conceal one's ability. |
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It
is a wearisome illness to preserve one's health by too strict a regiment. |
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It
is more shameful to mistrust one's friends than to be deceived by them. |
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It
is with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks of it, but few have
seen it. |
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Jealousy
is always born with love, but does not always die with it. |
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Men
have made a virtue of moderation to limit the ambition of the great, and
to console people of mediocrity for their want of fortune and of merit. |
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Men
would not live long is society were they not the dupes of one
another." |
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Old
people like to give good advice, as solace for no longer being able to
provide bad examples. |
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One
is never as happy or as unhappy as one thinks. |
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Perfect
courage is to do without witnesses what one would be capable of doing
before all the world. |
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Plenty
of people want to be pious, but no one yearns to be humble. |
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Quarrels
would not last long if the fault were only on one side. |
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Self-interest
speaks all sorts of tongues, and plays all sorts of roles, even that of
disinterestedness. |
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Self-love
is the greatest of all flatterers. |
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The
confidence which we have is ourselves engenders the greatest part of that
which we have in others. |
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The
gratitude of most men is nothing but a secret desire to receive greater
benefits. |
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The
greatest miracle of love is the cure of coquetry. |
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The
refusal of praise is a desire to be praised twice. |
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True
love is like a ghost, which everybody talks about and few have seen. |
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Virtue
would not go so far if vanity did not keep it company. |
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We
confess to little faults only to persuade others that we have no great
ones. |
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We
need greater virtues to sustain good fortune than bad. |
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We
often forgive those who bore us, but never those whom we bore. |
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We
would rather speak ill of ourselves than not talk about ourselves at all. |
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What
is called liberality is often merely the vanity of giving. |
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What's
the use of being young without good looks, or having good looks without
being young? |
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When
out vices leave us, we flatter ourselves with the idea that we have left
them. |
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Youth is a continual intoxication; it is the fever of reason. |